I put this video tip that was first published on Apr 6, 2014 on Youtube, where Rita explains how to avoid emotional relationship stress in the home & in the workplace.
She describes how brain research shows that our brain involuntarily opens things they call memoryfolders, or files from the past which would be easy to recognize if we where not so emotionally involved. Conversation that turn radically to statements like…
I never could…
You never have…
When a FILE is open longer than 2 minutes, emotional components come up. The consequence is that our thoughts and thus the conversation may develop adversely.
Rita tells you...
How to avoid marital conflict and negative conversations at work
How you can stay focused
How to overcome blockages in communication
How to deal with panic attacks, anxiety and depression, as you learn to deal with unpleasant feelings
How to control a FILE situation from further escalating into discord
Rita Harrison is the most non-German German I have ever met and she’s a lot older than she looks, she informs me. She’s witty, charming, with an easy smile and she listens hard to what you have to say, a
somewhat forgotten art.
I asked her what’s new in her Willow System and she said nothing but for the way she puts things together. She explained to me all about her pick n’ mix system, how it is made to fit the lifestyle of the person sitting in front of her and does not force that person to fit her system.
We talked for a long time and it was mind blowing how many ideas were presented, from the reorganization and centering of the body, to regaining a safe place in your family system. It was also way too much to list in this article, but I’ll try to break it down for you.
She must have a mind like a steel trap. I don’t know how old she really is, but she must have studied from day one, because she’s taken a multitude of tried and tested natural healing techniques and parts of the more accepted white coat (her words) medical modalities, stripped them down to see how they work and reassembled them into a widely based holistic treatment system that covers most, if not all, the bases.
She’s taken the tradition of German engineering and applied it to good health and healthy living.
So I asked, “What’s this fear-free healthy living bit all about?” With a radiant smile she told me that the first thing she noticed about a lot of healers, both main stream and alternative, was that they try to bind you to them by frightening the living daylight out of you: “You take this pill or food supplement, or you’ll die…”
She pointed out that you can’t tell a skydiver that you won’t help him until he stops living dangerously; it’s what he’s good at, what he loves, and how he pays his bills. “We tend to judge people too much by our own fears and this helps nobody!” she said.
Fear makes a person ill; freeing someone from fear can help them unfold into new health.
If you have a chance to talk to Rita, do – I loved it.